There’s probably no perfect way to start this, so I’ll just begin by saying that I go by they/them pronouns and tend to be emotionally soft while also being incredibly unserious at the same time. I’d describe myself as a switch with a submissive lean, though labels aren’t something I focus on too much—I care more about comfort, chemistry, and genuine connection.
I’m an ESFP, an Air sign, and definitely someone who can talk for hours once I’m comfortable. I get excited over small things easily, ramble when I’m happy, and somehow turn random topics into long conversations. If you ever come across someone constantly changing between Hyunjin and Han Jisung profile pictures everywhere, that’s probably me.
I’m already 28+ and currently surviving the exhausting corporate life, so nights and days off are the moments I value the most. I love late-night conversations, sharing random thoughts at 2 AM, listening to music together, playing games, or simply existing quietly with someone while the world sleeps. Once I grow attached, I can become very clingy in the softest way possible.
Affection means a lot to me in simple ways—words of affirmation, quality time, reassurance, sweet attention, and small thoughtful gestures stay with me longer than people probably realize.
Outside of work, I spend most of my time looking for comfort in little things: food, cooking, horror movies, K-Dramas, music, Plato, Roblox, and doing absolutely nothing while mentally recovering from life. My playlists are filled with Stray Kids, DAY6, NMIXX, LNGSHOT, NIKI, Taylor Swift, Gracie Abrams, and plenty of Indonesian songs depending on my mood—so don’t be surprised if I randomly send you songs at midnight because the lyrics reminded me of you.
The rest, I think, is better discovered naturally over time. Let’s save some things for later, shall we?
