What Phase Are You In?
Forge Your Catholic Fatherhood.

Begin your mission. Run to win (1 Cor 9:24).

Each question is mapped to a tactical phase of Catholic formation. Your answers reveal your phase—then we deploy your briefing. 8 questions. No fluff. Just war.

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Q1: Is your soul under siege or ordered by God?

1

I have no rhythm. I wake up in chaos and collapse into sin.

2

I try to pray, but I fall more than I rise.

3

I lead sometimes, but my prayer life is a battlefield.

4

I have a rhythm, but I need deeper formation — I want battle scars.

5

My house runs on prayer. I’m building for eternity.

Q2: Where does your will break under fire?

Q2: Where are you losing the daily war with the flesh?

1

I have no discipline — I’m crawling out of ruin.

2

Lust. Laziness. Excuses. My will folds easily.

3

I’m disciplined, but my house is reactive — not governed.

4

I’ve built order, but I want to forge reverence and awe.

5

I’m ready to suffer now so my sons don’t starve later.

Q3: Are you commanding your home or collapsing in it?

1

I feel passive, foggy, unclear — like a ghost in my house.

2

I lead by reacting. I lash out or disappear.

3

I want to lead, but I lack a system that holds.

4

I lead visibly, but the culture is still weak.

5

My house runs on mission. I want to multiply it.

Q4: Who owns your house—Christ or Caesar?

Q4: Is your home formed by the Church or the culture?

1

I barely know the Faith. I’m starting from rubble.

2

We try to live Catholic, but the world still shapes us.

3

We go to Mass, but we’re mostly drifting.

4

We follow the Church calendar, pray the Psalms, honor saints.

5

The Church fathers our home. The culture is barred from entry.

Q5: Does your body belong to God or your flesh?

1

I barely train or fast. I’m soft — and I know it.

2

I try to build habits, but I relapse often.

3

I’ve built some rhythm — it’s holding, but fragile.

4

I train, I fast, and I teach my sons the why.

5

My body is not mine. I train for the mission. I fast to war against sin.

Q6: Where is your fire currently directed?

1

I’m trying to understand the Faith before I speak.

2

I’m severing sin before it destroys my sons.

3

I’m building order — one hour, one habit at a time.

4

I want my home to bleed reverence.

5

I’m forging legacy and I don’t care if the world sees it.

Q7: Which statement hits hardest right now?

1

I don’t know where to begin. I’m lost.

2

I feel enslaved by sin. I can’t break free.

3

My home lacks a compass. I’m sick of drifting.

4

I want my family to bleed for Christ, not the world.

5

I’m done surviving. I want to build something that outlives me.

Q8: What mission are you starving for?

1

I need a Rule. I crave structure.

2

I want purity and penance — I’m sick of softness.

3

I need real systems — not slogans.

4

I’m starving for sacredness. I want beauty that convicts.

5

I want dominion. I’ll govern my house under Christ or die trying.

Forge Your Phase: Weighted Scoring Instructions

Step 1: Count Your Strikes

Each answer is scored 1–5.

Double-weight your:

• Spiritual life (Q1)

• Leadership in the home (Q3)

Formula: Add your scores (remember to double Q1 + Q3), then divide by 10.

Step 2: Forge Your Phase

Round to the nearest whole number. This is your battleground.

Your Phase = Your Battle

If you score:

1.0–1.5 — PHASE 1: REBUILD

Lay the foundation. No doctrine, no discipline—no dominion.

1.6–2.5 — PHASE 2: FORTIFY

Wage war on vice. Train the body. Master the will.

2.6–3.5 — PHASE 3: COMMAND

Lead your home. Set the rule. Establish order.

3.6–4.5 — PHASE 4: MAGNIFY

Form culture. Elevate the home. Steward beauty and grace.

4.6–5.0 — PHASE 5: ESTABLISH

Build a legacy. Secure Marian sovereignty.

Identify your phase. Own your mission. “The weapons of our warfare are not carnal…” (2 Cor 10:4)

What Phase Did You Land In? (Use the guide above to calculate your result.)

A man without formation is a man waiting to collapse.

What Phase Are You In? Forge Your Catholic Fatherhood.