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😬 I don’t know what I want, let alone how to ask.

🤷 Sometimes I drop hints, but I don’t always speak clearly.

💬 I’m learning to use my voice and it feels good.

👑 I ask clearly. I command. I get what I want.

I have a few basic limits but haven’t thought much about them.

I’ve written out my boundaries and can communicate them.

I know the difference between wants, needs, and non-negotiables—and I lead with them.

I want to be powerful (or submissive), but I’m scared to try.

I am a sovereign sexual being and I deserve to be worshiped or given the play of my dreams.

I might say something after, but not always in the moment.

I stop the scene and explain my boundary.

I calmly and confidently enforce my boundary in the moment and protect my energy.

It makes me nervous. I’m not sure I’m ready for that.

Part of me likes it, but part of me doubts myself.

It’s new, but I’m enjoying the feeling.

I feel like when I am playing, I am my full self, strong, cared for, and content.

A gentle intro where we talk about desires.

A playful bedroom scene with teasing and some restraint.

A ritualized experience where I am adored and obeyed or where I do the adoration.

A fully negotiated, multi-hour scene where I lead as Goddess or surrender as a sub.

I want to restrain my partner and tease them or I will be the one restraining.

I want to be worshipped, have my boots kissed, and be adored or do the adoration.

I’m surrounded by people who encourage me.

I’m playing with someone who listens and respects my voice.

I’ve negotiated a scene and it goes how I envisioned it.

I walk into a space fully embodied in my power, or my submission, knowing who I am and what I want.