Welcome to The Love Club

We’re thrilled you're considering joining our community of like-minded singles who are on a journey of self-growth and seeking genuine, long-term connections. Basic membership is free and will enter you into our Matchmaking Database of singles, but all members must be approved based on their commitment to emotional intelligence, empathy, and building meaningful relationships. The Love Club is open to people ages 24-45 currently. We hope to broaden our age range eventually but for now, to provide you with the best possible matches, we are keeping the range narrow. Take a breath and have fun with this 💫
This isn’t a test, it’s just a little soul-searching to help us get to know the real you. Your answers are just between us and will only be used to help us match you with someone awesome. Let yourself be honest. You might even learn something new about what you really want.

In addition to these questions, you’ll need to choose ONE of the following options for us to get to know you better: Option 1. You have a referral code from an existing Love Club member. Option 2. A 10 minute video call with a member from The Love Club team (we want to get to know your vibe). Option 3. A character reference from a close friend of the opposite gender, and someone who can be verified on Linkedin.

Option 4. Upload a 30-60 second video sharing what kind of relationship you are hoping to find.

By applying, you agree to our rules if you're accepted.

We will only reach out to you if you are approved. If you don't hear from us within 7 days, that means we cannot approve your application at this time, but you can reapply in 6 months. Please don't take it personally if you aren't approved the first time because the reason may be that we just have too many of one gender at the moment.

First Name, Last Name

Email (double check it's spelled correctly!)

Birthday

What is your sexuality?

A

Straight

B

Gay

C

Bi or Fluid

Which gender(s) are you open to dating?

Female (cis)

Male (cis)

Female (trans)

Male (trans)

Where are you located? (City, State/Province, Country)

Are you open to falling in love with someone outside of your area?

A

No

B

Yes

Do you have a pet?

A

No

B

Yes, and it gets along with other pets

C

Yes, but it doesn't get along with other pets

How ready are you to open up and be honest and vulnerable with someone? (0 being not at all, 10 being definitely)

What is the temperature range you keep you most often set the thermostat at? (For example 70-73 F, or 20-22 C)

What are your non-negotiables or instant deal-breakers in a partner?

What's the most influential self help or personal development tool you have found to date?

Which type of vacation are you most likely to choose?

A

Staying at an Airbnb or hotel and exploring the city (Museums, famous landmarks, popular restaurants)

B

Getting dropped off at an all inclusive resort and spending most or all of your relaxing at the pool

C

Going on a hiking or camping trip

D

Getting a quirky or unique Airbnb like a treehouse and spending the day finding hidden gems

How would you expect your partner to celebrate your birthday?

A

Not a big deal, just dinner and a card and maybe a small gift

B

Planning a surprise fun day with some of your favorite activities and a thoughtful gift

C

Planning a surprise party for you with all of your friends

D

Going above and beyond, planning for the two of you to go away on a vacation

How would you describe your ability to be flexible with your opinions and routines?

A

I know what I like and it's unlikely to change. I don't like diverting from my routine

B

I have somewhat of a routine but it can be diverted without much dilemma

C

I don't have a routine, I am totally go with the flow

Which statement is more true?

A

I have more empathy for animals than children

B

I have more empathy for children than animals

C

I feel empathetic for both children and animals the same

D

I don't feel very empathetic for children or animals

I could see myself living (select all that apply)

In a high rise in the downtown of a busy city

Way out in the country where I can't see my neighbors, having farm animals

In a charming cottage or beach house in a small city by the ocean

In the suburbs where I attend my kid's sports games

In a quiet cabin somewhere that I'm close to nature and get to experience the seasons

In the outskirts of a city, where I have access to unique things to do but I am not in the hustle and bustle of a downtown area

Which of the following style of wedding feel most aligned to you? (select all that apply)

Eloping somewhere unique like Iceland with just the two of you or maybe your closest family

Having a simple church or backyard wedding with a small or medium amount of guests

Having an expensive wedding at a high end venue or a destination wedding

A low-key courthouse wedding or a Vegas elopement

I do not want to ever get married

What is most closely aligned with your plans for your future?

Having a powerful role at a successful company, flying first class business trips regularly. My partner and I get to enjoy the finer things like Michelin star restaurants and 5 star hotels

Being wild and carefree hippies without many obligations. Maybe traveling around the country in an RV with the love of my life or living somewhere wild together like Costa Rica or Hawaii, skinny dipping in rivers.

Raising kids in the suburbs, driving them to school and soccer practice and having family BBQs on weekends

Having a pretty regular life with my partner, where we enjoy weekly dates to restaurants, dinner parties, picnics, art museums or farmer's markets.

Are you open to kids?

A

Already have a kid

B

Open to the idea with the right person

C

Definitely want them in my future!

D

Definitely do NOT want kids

Do you want to get married?

A

Absolutely! I'm hoping to meet a potential spouse

B

Undecided, but I do want a long term or life partner

C

I'm not interested in ever getting married but I do want a long term or life partner

Which statement is most accurate if you are having a bad day?

A

I want some alone time to gather my thoughts

B

I want to cuddle and be comforted by my partner

C

I want to go out and have fun so I can get my mind off it

What's your ideal frequency of intimacy in a committed relationship?

A

I prefer not answer

B

1-3 times per week

C

4 or more times per week

D

every other week

E

monthly

F

less than monthly

How important is it that your partner is sexually adventurous?

A

I prefer not answer

B

Very important!

C

I like some adventure, but we don't have to get too crazy

D

Not important, I'm content if they only want vanilla stuff

How active would you describe yourself with 0 being sedentary and 10 being someone who runs marathons?

Would you consider yourself easily offended? For instance, do you get offended by comedians with offensive jokes?

How clingy do you tend to act in relationships? 0 being completely independent and couldn't care less about receiving affection, 10 is needing to have your partner give you love and attention 24/7

How important is it to you that your partner keeps an extremely tidy, clutter-free space? 0 being not important, 10 being critically important.

Do you consider yourself adventurous? 0 would be someone who doesn't like to leave the house and 10 would be someone who has solo backpacked across a foreign continent?

How important is it that your partner is conventionally attractive? 0 being not important at all, 10 being extremely important

Which of these statements feels most aligned with you? (you can choose multiple)

The man should provide financially while the woman should not have to earn an income

Women and men should both work and share the cost of expenses

I'm cool with gender roles being reversed, men can be stay at home dads.

I don't feel strongly any sort of way

How would you describe yourself as a partner? (Doesn't have to be long, it can just be a sentence or a list of adjectives)

Your partner and you both have a day off from work and responsibilities. What's your ideal way to spend it together?

Final Step. Remember, you only have to choose one of the three options below.

Option 1 You received a referral code from an existing Love Club member. Enter it below:

Option 2 (Book a 10 minute video call with a team member, at this link)

Option 3 A character reference from a close friend of the opposite gender, and someone who can be verified on Linkedin. We will contact them for a character reference. Please put their email address and Linkedin link below.

Option 4 Upload a 30-60 second video submission below. Tell us what kind of relationship you are hoping to find! This will be for our eyes only and we will never share it.

Size limit: 10 MB

Do any of the following apply to you? (The reason we ask is because Love Club has an exclusive segment called "The Inner Circle," a discreet space within The Love Club for our members who are in the public eye, exceptionally successful, or extremely high-profile.
This invitation-only tier offers curated events and introductions with others who understand the unique challenges that come with fame, beauty, or wealth-- allowing authentic connections to flourish in a protected, judgment-free space.)

Do any of the following apply to you? (The reason we ask is because Love Club has an exclusive segment called "The Inner Circle," a discreet space within The Love Club for our members who are in the public eye, exceptionally successful, or extremely high-profile.This invitation-only tier offers curated events and introductions with others who understand the unique challenges that come with fame, beauty, or wealth-- allowing authentic connections to flourish in a protected, judgment-free space.)

I am a celebrity or public figure

I am a professional model

My looks regularly turn heads. I’ve been told I’m a 10 both physically and personality wise, and I own it

I net over $300,000 annually

None of these apply to me. The standard Love Club will do

I have read and agree to The Love Club’s Non-Discrimination & Matching Policy and Community Rules.
I understand that The Love Club is an inclusive space that values emotional intelligence, respect, and self-growth. I agree to abide by the club’s rules, including no early physical beyond kissing on your first two dates, providing feedback after each date, and treating all members with kindness and dignity. I acknowledge that matches are made based on compatibility, and personal characteristics such as race, gender, or age are only considered if I have indicated a preference. I understand that if I am accepted, I must continue to follow these rules to remain a member of the community. By clicking "submit" I am agreeing to this.