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Which Midlife Heroine Are You?

Your current mood in one sentence is…

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Q1

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I need a new plan but don’t know where to start.

B

I’m beyond exhausted and fantasizing about running away

C

I have 20 ideas and can’t choose one.

D

I’ve done everything “right” and still feel unseen.

E

I want to burn it all down—but also keep the coffee machine

F

I know there’s something deeper I’m avoiding

G

I feel like a shapeshifter and want to come home to myself.

H

I want more color, more voice, more me.

People come to you because

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Q2

A

You say what others are afraid to say.

B

You’re the steady one who always delivers.

C

You make people feel seen.

D

You’re magnetic and mysterious.

E

You take care of everything without asking.

F

You always have a plan.

G

You bring the sparkle back to tired spaces

H

Your brain is a treasure chest of ideas.

Your biggest fear right now is...

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Q3

A

Wasting your potential.

B

Confronting the truth.

C

Choosing the wrong thing.

D

Never getting a break.

E

That it’s too late.

F

Settling.

G

Not belonging anywhere.

H

Staying invisible.

What brings you joy?

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Q4

A

Dancing barefoot in your kitchen.

B

Starting something new and exciting.

C

Making a list and following through.

D

Canceling plans and resting.

E

Recognition for something meaningful.

F

Speaking truth to power.

G

Changing your identity or environment.

H

Deep connection and journaling.

Your romantic relationships tend to be...

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Q5

A

Emotionally rich but guarded.

B

Exciting but scattered.

C

Changing often.

D

Intense and often misunderstood.

E

Loving but sometimes smotherin

F

Over-giving and one-sided.

G

Steady but under-nourished.

H

Stable but lacking depth.

Your ideal workday includes...

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Q6

A

Creating beauty or connection.

B

Planning out steps and executing them.

C

Sketching ideas and jumping between tabs.

D

Quiet thinking, emotional clarity.

E

Reinvention or travel.

F

Saying no. Loudly.

G

Getting stuff done and proving value.

H

No meetings. No expectations. Just rest.

What’s your toxic trait?

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Q7

A

Reinventing so often you forget who you are.

B

Pushing people away when you want closeness.

C

Over-planning everything.

D

Overachieving to be loved.

E

Starting but not finishing.

F

Being a martyr.

G

Avoiding confrontation.

H

Hiding your brilliance out of fear.

What kind of help do you secretly want?

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Q8

A

Space to tell the truth and not be punished.

B

Encouragement to be louder, bolder, freer.

C

Honest, compassionate feedback.

D

Permission to rest.

E

Someone to show you the bigger picture.

F

Deep listening.

G

A clear creative path.

H

A place to land.

What do you want more of in your life?

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Q9

A

Joy and unapologetic expression

B

Freedom and honesty

C

Truth and depth

D

Recognition and ease

E

Coherence and rootedness

F

Meaning and clarity

G

Focus and momentum

H

Time and rest

What’s your default response to a life crossroads?

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Q10

A

Think “I missed my window” and freeze

B

Move cities or change careers

C

Start three new projects to distract yourself

D

Delay and overcommit elsewhere

E

Push through and overperform

F

Make a pros and cons list

G

Say no before anyone can reject you

H

Cry in secret and pretend you’re fine

You're happiest when...

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Q11

A

You’re speaking your truth, even if it’s messy

B

Someone sees the effort no one else noticed

C

Things are in motion with a clear destination

D

You’re in a moment that feels like you again

E

You’re allowed to do nothing

F

You feel emotionally safe and seen

G

You’re immersed in creative play

H

You’re evolving without needing to explain yourself

Your teen self would ask you…

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Q12

A

“What happened to your voice?”

B

“How many masks are you wearing?”

C

“Why did you stop dreaming?”

D

“When will you stop trying to be perfect?”

E

“Where did the wild ideas go?”

F

“Why do you never put yourself first?”

G

“Why do you hide your truth?”

H

“You were meant to be more than this.”

What’s your secret superpower?

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Q13

A

Speaking uncomfortable truths

B

Making beauty out of chaos

C

Radical compassion

D

Shape-shifting and adapting

E

Strategic thinking

F

Emotional depth

G

Creative intuition

H

Competence under pressure

When things get hard, you…

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Q14

A

Change everything overnight

B

Quietly overdeliver

C

Blame yourself and shrink

D

Numb out and over-function

E

Dream up five new things instead

F

Retreat into plans and spreadsheets

G

Spiral inward and get silent

H

Get reactive or withdraw

What kind of transformation are you most hungry for?

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Q15

A

One where you feel rested and whole

B

One where you’re seen without performing

C

One where you stop compromising yourself

D

One where your creativity is finally directed

E

One where you’re no longer stuck or circling

F

One where you own your full truth

G

One where you feel solid in your identity

H

One where you finally take up all your space

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