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Apply to Work With Me

Most women have learned to communicate what's safe.

Few have learned to communicate what's real.

The cost is the emotional safety and connection you actually came here for — with him, with yourself, with the life you've built.

This application is for the woman who's done performing safety in her relationship and is ready to do the real work of being known. It takes about 20–30 minutes. I read every word.

If you can't bring yourself to sit with these questions, this work isn't for you yet — and that's information worth having. Either way, you'll hear back from me within 48 hours.

Your name + Instagram handle?

Tell me about your relationship. Are you married, partnered, dating? How long?

Tell me about your relationship. Are you married, partnered, dating? How long?
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What's the one conversation you've been trying to have with him for the longest? What is it actually about?

Tell me about the last time you tried to have it. What did you say? What did he say? How did it end?

What have you tried so far? Name the actual things — therapists, books, courses, coaches, frameworks. Don't generalize.

What has this cost you — in your body, your sleep, your work, your patience with everyone else, your sense of yourself? Where is this leaking into the rest of your life?

What are you so done with feeling — even if you can't yet name what you want to feel instead?

Who do you want to be in your relationship that you're not being right now? What would that woman do differently than you do today?

Six months from now, if we did this work together and it worked, what would be different in your relationship and in you?

When are you actually ready to start doing this work?

When are you actually ready to start doing this work?
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