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You look like trouble. How about a little mischief?

A pleasant hello to you, lovely souls! I'm rather glad our paths have crossed, even if it's only through this little page for now. They say first impressions matter, so I thought I'd make mine a little more interesting than an ordinary hello. Settle in, indulge your curiosity, and let me introduce myself. Perhaps there's a delightful little connection waiting to be discovered between these lines.

Before we proceed, there's just one little thing I'd like to clarify. I'm already in my nearly-thirty era (not quite there yet, but close enough, I suppose). With that in mind, I'd prefer you to be at least 24 or 25 years old. There's no particular reason behind this other than wanting us both to feel comfortable and at ease, without having to worry about an age gap that might feel a little too significant. So, if you're under 24, I'll have to kindly ask you to take your leave. No hard feelings, of course!

Now, let's get to know the person behind this little invitation, shall we? First things first, I go by he/him pronouns, so feel free to address me accordingly. You might recognize me through Asakura Jo from &TEAM or Enjin from Gachiakuta, which should give you a little hint of the person behind this account. I'm an ambivert who typically falls somewhere within the XNFP spectrum, though I can lean towards either introversion or extroversion depending on the situation. Oh, and I'm a Scorpio, if that tells you anything! As for who I'm open to getting to know, I swing both ways, so everyone's welcome regardless of gender. What matters most to me is mutual interest, comfort, and a genuine connection.

Now, onto the things that keep me entertained. I'm quite into K-pop, with a little J-pop on the side (though I'd consider myself more of a casual listener when it comes to the latter). When it comes to music, I'm pretty much an all-ears kind of person. My playlists can go from mainstream pop and pop-rock to alternative, metal, EDM, and even tropical house without much warning. I'm also quite fond of bands like Pierce the Veil, Sleeping with Sirens, and Asking Alexandria, but honestly, if a song catches my attention, chances are it'll find its way into my playlist regardless of its genre.

I'm also a big fan of anime and manga, particularly romance, action-adventure, dark fantasy, and shonen titles. And yes, Gachiakuta definitely deserves a special mention because I'm genuinely obsessed with it. Don't be surprised if I suddenly get carried away discussing its characters, storyline, or theories. As for movies and Korean dramas, I usually gravitate towards action-thrillers, medical dramas, science fiction, horror, mystery, dystopian stories, and anything that knows how to keep me on the edge of my seat. I'm always up for an intriguing storyline or a good plot twist that'll leave me thinking long after the credits roll.

When I'm not listening to music or catching up on something to watch, you'll probably find me reading manga, scrolling through social media or Substack, checking out random discussions, or playing games like Roblox and Heartopia. I also enjoy exploring random topics that catch my curiosity, falling down internet rabbit holes, learning little bits of different languages and cultures, and reading about whatever happens to pique my interest that day. I guess I have a habit of getting invested in whatever happens to catch my attention.

Of course, those aren't the only things I enjoy. My interests can be a little all over the place, so there's always something new to discover. You don't necessarily have to share the same taste in music, shows, games, or anything else with me, either. I'd be more than happy to explore your interests, exchange recommendations, or simply listen to you ramble about something you're passionate about. Who knows? Maybe you'll introduce me to my next favourite thing, and perhaps I'll do the same for you.

Personality-wise, I'd say I'm quite an expressive person, a little too talkative for my own good, and definitely someone who enjoys a good conversation. I can be playful, occasionally sarcastic, and rather unserious when the opportunity presents itself, but I also appreciate conversations that go beyond the usual small talk. I'm a working adult, too, so I have my own responsibilities and commitments to juggle. Don't mistake my occasional online presence for having absolutely nothing to do, though. I simply enjoy making time for people worth talking to.

When it comes to affection, my love languages are Quality Time, Physical Touch, and Acts of Service. I'm particularly fond of a switch dynamic with a top-dom lean, although I believe mutual comfort, communication, and understanding matter far more than fitting into a particular label. I appreciate both the little gestures and the more intentional ways of showing someone that they're cared for. I value mutual comfort, communication, and understanding, and enjoy connections where we can be expressive without feeling awkward about it, share a little playful teasing, and be open about what makes us comfortable. A little humour here and there wouldn't hurt either. In fact, I'd say it's part of the fun.

Now, a little disclaimer: I'm not necessarily looking for someone who shares every single interest with me. I actually find it rather lovely when two people have their own little worlds but still make an effort to explore each other's interests. I can be quite enthusiastic when talking about things I like, so don't be surprised if you occasionally receive an unsolicited ramble from me. In return, I'd love to hear about your interests, random thoughts, daily happenings, or even the most ridiculous thing that crossed your mind today. I appreciate people who can keep a conversation going, have a sense of humour, and aren't afraid to be themselves.

One more thing I'd like to emphasize: I don't expect our interactions to revolve around exchanging affection or playful teasing all the time. More than anything, I'm genuinely looking for someone I can have good conversations with, someone I can talk to about practically anything without feeling the need to constantly keep the romantic energy going. I much prefer interactions that flow naturally, whether we're talking about our day, sharing random thoughts, discussing something interesting, or simply being unserious together over the most ridiculous things. I don't want affection to feel like an obligation or something we have to continuously prove to one another. I'd rather have it come naturally, whenever we both feel like expressing it. Generally speaking, I'd love to build a connection where companionship comes just as naturally as affection. After all, I'd like us to enjoy each other's company even when there's nothing particular to talk about.

A little note on who isn't welcome here: My DNI list includes pro-government loyalists, 02 voters, regime apologists, supporters of Prabowo and his policies, and political buzzers who defend or promote the current regime. #intinyadeh, DNI kalau lu 02 voters dan penyepong rezim. In short, if you're here to blindly support the government, excuse its misconduct, or act as an apologist for those in power, kindly stay away. I also prefer to stay away from people who remain deliberately silent or neutral in the face of ongoing injustices, particularly when that neutrality serves to excuse those in power.

On a more personal note, DNI if you're ableist, LGBTQ+ phobic in any form, any religion-phobic, antisemitic, racist, misogynistic, sexist, xenophobic, disrespectful or generally discriminatory. This also applies to people who oppose fundamental human rights, excuse oppression or state violence, spread political disinformation, engage in victim-blaming, or make light of other people's suffering.

I'm not particularly interested in people who are manipulative, disrespectful, intolerant, habitual boundary-crossers, bullies, harassers, or constantly involved in unnecessary online drama. Minors are not welcome, either. I value empathy, accountability, critical thinking, and respect for human dignity. If those values are something you fundamentally disagree with, I don't think we'll get along, and that's perfectly fine.

And that's about as much as I'll reveal for now! There's obviously more to me than what a few paragraphs could possibly cover, and I'd rather let you discover the rest naturally. After all, getting to know someone should be a little adventure of its own, shouldn't it?