The 5D Relationship Index

The 5D Relationship Index identifies where you are in your current relationship, areas to celebrate and areas to improve.

When challenges arise, how does your partner respond?

A

They get frustrated, dismissive, or avoidant.

B

They try to help but often focus on solutions rather than connection.

C

They hold space for me, making me feel deeply seen and understood.

Do you feel your partner is a mirror, reflecting your highest potential?

A

No, our dynamic feels stagnant or transactional.

B

Yes, they constantly inspire my growth and purpose.

C

Sometimes, but we don’t always push each other to the next level.

When you share your deepest emotions or desires, how does your partner react?

A

They acknowledge it but sometimes don’t fully engage.

B

They listen intently, making me feel valued and safe.

C

They deflect, minimize, or change the subject.

When a disagreement arises, how is it handled?

A

We approach it with emotional intelligence, turning it into a moment of deeper connection.

B

We try to resolve it, but often one of us feels unheard.

C

It escalates into blame, withdrawal, or emotional distance.

How often do you and your partner have deep, meaningful conversations beyond day-to-day logistics?

A

Regularly—we prioritize soul-level discussions.

B

Occasionally, but often work and life take precedence.

C

Rarely—it feels like we’re coexisting rather than truly connecting.

Do you feel a deep, magnetic attraction to your partner?

A

No, the intimacy feels routine, disconnected, or even absent.

B

Sometimes, but we’ve lost some of the passion over time.

C

Yes, there’s an undeniable, electric chemistry between us.

In your relationship dynamic, how balanced is the masculine-feminine polarity?

A

There’s an imbalance—either too much control, competition, or passivity.

B

Perfectly—we each embody our energy, creating a powerful synergy.

C

We switch roles sometimes, but it’s not always intentional.

Do you and your partner actively create a shared vision for your future?

A

We have goals, but they’re more individual than truly shared.

B

No, we feel disconnected or unclear about the bigger picture.

C

Yes, we regularly align on our goals, mission, and legacy.

How supported do you feel by your partner in your personal and professional aspirations?

A

Not really—I often feel alone in my ambitions.

B

Somewhat—they encourage me, but we don’t always operate as a team.

C

Completely—they are my biggest supporter and co-creator.

How often do you experience deep intimacy—physically, emotionally, or spiritually?

A

Regularly—it’s a sacred, transformative connection.

B

Rarely—it feels distant, disconnected, or transactional.

C

Occasionally, but life often gets in the way.

Do you feel fully safe to express your authentic self in your relationship?

A

No, I feel like I have to filter or suppress aspects of myself.

B

Somewhat—I hold back certain emotions or parts of myself.

C

Yes, my partner embraces every part of me.