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Romantic Compatibility Scale

First and Last Name

E-mail Address

Phone Number

Welcome! This test helps assess romantic compatibility based on:
- Parental image seeking/avoidance
- Unresolved emotional conflicts
- Ideal of the self
- Attachment style
Please answer each statement truthfully using the following scale:
1 — Strongly Disagree
2 — Disagree
3 — Neutral
4 — Agree
5 — Strongly Agree
Results will be used to guide your personalized matchmaking.

1. I feel attracted to people who remind me of my parents.

1. I feel attracted to people who remind me of my parents.

2. Familiar emotional patterns make me feel connected.

2. Familiar emotional patterns make me feel connected.

3. I feel uneasy dating people similar to my parents.

3. I feel uneasy dating people similar to my parents.

4. My partners often have characteristics of my parents.

4. My partners often have characteristics of my parents.

5. I feel drawn to emotionally intense partners.

5. I feel drawn to emotionally intense partners.

6. I try to "fix" partners emotionally.

6. I try to "fix" partners emotionally.

7. I repeat unhealthy relationship patterns.

7. I repeat unhealthy relationship patterns.

8. My partners remind me of unresolved situations in my life.

8. My partners remind me of unresolved situations in my life.

9. I'm attracted to people with qualities I admire.

9. I'm attracted to people with qualities I admire.

10. I feel connected to people who boost my self-image.

10. I feel connected to people who boost my self-image.

11. I feel fulfilled by admirable partners.

11. I feel fulfilled by admirable partners.

12. I seek partners who help me grow.

12. I seek partners who help me grow.

13. I'm comfortable with emotional closeness.

13. I'm comfortable with emotional closeness.

14. I pull away when things get too close

14. I pull away when things get too close

15. I worry my partner doesn’t love me enough.

15. I worry my partner doesn’t love me enough.

16. I highly value independence in relationships.

16. I highly value independence in relationships.