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Suppress my choice because going against them is too uncomfortable

Make the choice but feel guilt and shame, afraid of being found out

Try to convince them of my choice because their support and approval are important

Live my choice and feel happy about it — while I’d like their support, it’s not required

You’re considering a lifestyle choice that feels right for you (not having kids, choosing ENM, etc.), but your family or community strongly disapproves. What do you do? 

Override what I feel — he is a great guy, what’s wrong with me?

He is a great catch; I need to make sure I’m not overreacting — I should give him more chances

Acknowledge the discomfort but wait until I can logically explain what’s bothering me

Trust what my body already told me and take action — I honor my inner knowing without needing it to “make sense”

You’re dating someone who checks nearly all the boxes. However, something he says or does feels wrong in your body. Your friends say you’re overreacting and that he sounds like a great guy. What do you do? 


I doubt my feeling and experience — I feel worse for not being validated

I feel angry but expressing it feels uncomfortable, so I become silent or snappy

I tell him I feel angry, blaming him for my anger (“You make me angry when…”)

I tell him, “I’m feeling angry because I need to be heard with compassion.”

Which of the following describes you best when your partner is giving you oral? 


To look age-appropriate — haven’t really thought beyond that

To please myself and express who I am from the inside out

When you get dressed, what’s your intention? 


My self-care is minimal and random; it’s at the bottom of my priority list

My self-care is mostly appearance upkeep, anti-aging, or pampering (skin care, nails, weight loss, etc.)

Some of my self-care nourishes me on the inside too (yoga, meditation, etc.)

My self-care is devotional — intentionally chosen to honor my body and soul from the inside out

When you think about “taking care of yourself,” what do you actually do most often? 


Never — my man protects me, so I don’t need it

Recently or ongoing (martial arts, combative sports, etc.)

6.) When was your last self-defense training?

I don’t feel comfortable receiving oral, so I don’t let my partner do it

I’m OK with it but often feel like there are better things to do

I love it, but asking for more or giving direction feels hard

I love it, my partner loves giving it to me, and I have no hesitation asking for what I want to receive in bed

7.) You share something hurtful that happened at work. Instead of hearing you or being on your side, your partner says: “I think you’re taking it too personally. Feel better.” You feel angry. What best describes you?


Compromise my sleep — I’m happy he wants to wake up next to me

Partially accommodate and do sleepovers occasionally — because what he wants feels like the norm

Tell him sleep matters to me, and sleeping together doesn’t equal more love

Hold my boundary — if he struggles with me protecting the quality of my sleep, there is a bigger problem in our relationship

8.) Your partner wants a sleepover because it makes him feel loved, but sleeping with another person in the same bed interferes with your sleep. What do you do?


I’m upset but pay the $4000 — feels like I have no alternative

Ask questions to understand what happened, while assuming I still must pay

Hear their explanation and request a discount

After hearing their explanation, state that they performed work I didn’t authorize and invoicing me for it is unprofessional. Then tell them to provide a corrected invoice for the authorized work only

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