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What's Your Dating Archetype? Quiz

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I really don't date or have relationships

I'm great at the beginning but things never seem to go deeper

I date but keep ending up in the same frustrating situation

I'm usually in a relationship or talking to someone, but it's complicated

I keep getting swept up in chemistry until things fall apart

I get into relationships but something always feels slightly off about my choices

Fantasize about them without taking any action -- I don't know what else to do

Turn on the charm and enjoy the pursuit —I'm not shy about making my feelings known

Go for it but somehow always end up back at square one

Do whatever it takes to keep their interest, even if it means compromising myself

Dive in headfirst because the chemistry is undeniable

Wait to see if they pursue me before deciding how I feel

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When you like someone, you tend to:

Like I never quite got started -- I don't regularly/ever have romantic relationships

Great at first — but then I found reasons to pull back or move on

Like I keep repeating the same pattern with different people

Like I always give more than I get in return

Amazing at first, then confused when the spark fades

Find myself suddenly noticing everything that's wrong with them

Get excited but also worried they won’t follow through

Lean in while assessing whether or not I want them

When someone you're dating wants to go deeper or get more serious, you:

Honestly? I'm not sure I'm cut out for love

I know I'm lovable -- I just have high standards

I want to believe I'm lovable, but something keeps going wrong

I know I'm lovable when I'm at my best, but I'm not sure my best is always enough

I'm very lovable -- I just keep picking the wrong people

I'm lovable and confident in who I am -- I just haven't found the right fit yet. 

How do you feel about your own lovability?

I rarely get there -- I'm more comfortable being platonic

Hope it works out -- I don't want to have to start again

Prioritize their needs and happiness to prove my worth/desirability

Allow myself to be courted or for things to naturally progress towards commitment

When you're in a relationship or getting to know someone, you tend to:

Internalize it -- it's really hard for me to deal with so I stay guarded

People accuse me of this more than I experience it

Rationalize or ignore it, hoping it's not how it looks/feels

Make excuses for them and try harder to make it work

Lose the spark immediately -- this is a dealbreaker

What's Your Dating Archetype? Quiz

By Francesca Hogi

Which most closely describes your current love life?