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Ruhu. V1
“Ruhu is not a dating platform. This form helps clarify how we can help you approach intentional partnership and shared life. There are no right answers.”
Full Name
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Email
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Phone number
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DOB
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Gender Identity
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Man
Woman
prefer to self-describe
In a few sentence describe yourself
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Which best describes your current situation?
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A
single and not dating
B
single and dating casually
C
in a relationship that may change
D
separated or divorced
E
navigating family or social pressure
F
other
What are you primarily here to build?
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A
long-term life partnership
B
co-parenting arrangement
C
lavender / socially functional marriage
D
long-term companionship
E
I’m still exploring
Are you open to legal marriage?
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A
yes, it’s required
B
yes, optional
C
no
Children, realistically:
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A
I want children
B
I’m open to children
C
I don’t want children
D
I already have children
What role do you expect to play in parenting?
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A
primary caregiver
B
shared equally
C
secondary / support role
D
unsure
Where are you currently based?
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Over the next 5 years, your location is:
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A
fixed
B
flexible within my country
C
flexible internationally
Long-distance arrangements are:
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A
not an option
B
acceptable short-term
C
acceptable long-term
Which discomfort do you prefer living with?
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A
sharing finances and negotiating often
B
separating finances and coordinating often
Over time, you are most comfortable with:
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A
partially shared finances
B
fully pooled finances
C
fully separate finances
Your attitude toward financial risk:
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A
I prioritize stability
B
I balance stability and risk
C
I’m comfortable with volatility
Household roles should be:
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A
clearly defined
B
flexible and negotiated
C
not something I’ve thought much about
In day-to-day life, you prefer:
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A
structured routines
B
loose structure
C
fluid and spontaneous days
Your current life phase feels closest to:
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A
building / hustling
B
stabilizing
C
maintaining
D
transitioning
Over the next decade, your direction is:
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A
career or business growth
B
family and home focus
C
balance between both
D
unsure
When personal freedom clashes with family obligation, which usually bends?
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A
my freedom
B
my obligations
When tradition conflicts with personal choice, you tend to:
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follow tradition
adapt tradition
reject tradition
In a partnership, what matters more?
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privacy
transparency
depends on context
Stability vs growth — which do you usually choose?
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A
stability
B
growth
C
I try to balance both
Over time, your identity feels:
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A
stable and well-defined
B
evolving
C
still forming
How open are you to renegotiating agreements as life changes?
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A
very open
B
somewhat open
C
resistant
Which statement fits best?
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A
I’m clear on what I want
B
I’m clear on what I don’t want
C
I’m still figuring things out
What matters more to you long-term?
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A
peace
B
passion
C
purpose
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