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Ruhu. V1

“Ruhu is not a dating platform. This form helps clarify how we can help you approach intentional partnership and shared life. There are no right answers.”

Full Name

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Email

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Phone number

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DOB

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Gender Identity

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Gender Identity

Man

Woman

prefer to self-describe

In a few sentence describe yourself

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Which best describes your current situation?

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Which best describes your current situation?

A

single and not dating

B

single and dating casually

C

in a relationship that may change

D

separated or divorced

E

navigating family or social pressure

F

other

What are you primarily here to build?

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What are you primarily here to build?

A

long-term life partnership

B

co-parenting arrangement

C

lavender / socially functional marriage

D

long-term companionship

E

I’m still exploring

Are you open to legal marriage?

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Are you open to legal marriage?

A

yes, it’s required

B

yes, optional

C

no

Children, realistically:

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Children, realistically:

A

I want children

B

I’m open to children

C

I don’t want children

D

I already have children

What role do you expect to play in parenting?

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What role do you expect to play in parenting?

A

primary caregiver

B

shared equally

C

secondary / support role

D

unsure

Where are you currently based?

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Over the next 5 years, your location is:

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Over the next 5 years, your location is:

A

fixed

B

flexible within my country

C

flexible internationally

Long-distance arrangements are:

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Long-distance arrangements are:

A

not an option

B

acceptable short-term

C

acceptable long-term

Which discomfort do you prefer living with?

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Which discomfort do you prefer living with?

A

sharing finances and negotiating often

B

separating finances and coordinating often

Over time, you are most comfortable with:

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Over time, you are most comfortable with:

A

partially shared finances

B

fully pooled finances

C

fully separate finances

Your attitude toward financial risk:

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Your attitude toward financial risk:

A

I prioritize stability

B

I balance stability and risk

C

I’m comfortable with volatility

Household roles should be:

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Household roles should be:

A

clearly defined

B

flexible and negotiated

C

not something I’ve thought much about

In day-to-day life, you prefer:

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In day-to-day life, you prefer:

A

structured routines

B

loose structure

C

fluid and spontaneous days

Your current life phase feels closest to:

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Your current life phase feels closest to:

A

building / hustling

B

stabilizing

C

maintaining

D

transitioning

Over the next decade, your direction is:

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Over the next decade, your direction is:

A

career or business growth

B

family and home focus

C

balance between both

D

unsure

When personal freedom clashes with family obligation, which usually bends?

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When personal freedom clashes with family obligation, which usually bends?

A

my freedom

B

my obligations

When tradition conflicts with personal choice, you tend to:

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When tradition conflicts with personal choice, you tend to:

follow tradition

adapt tradition

reject tradition

In a partnership, what matters more?

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In a partnership, what matters more?

privacy

transparency

depends on context

Stability vs growth — which do you usually choose?

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Stability vs growth — which do you usually choose?

A

stability

B

growth

C

I try to balance both

Over time, your identity feels:

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Over time, your identity feels:

A

stable and well-defined

B

evolving

C

still forming

How open are you to renegotiating agreements as life changes?

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How open are you to renegotiating agreements as life changes?

A

very open

B

somewhat open

C

resistant

Which statement fits best?

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Which statement fits best?

A

I’m clear on what I want

B

I’m clear on what I don’t want

C

I’m still figuring things out

What matters more to you long-term?

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What matters more to you long-term?

A

peace

B

passion

C

purpose

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