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Should I go?

If you're here, you've probably been carrying this question for a while. Maybe you've started to feel invisible in your own home. Maybe you wonder if anything will ever change, or whether you're allowed to want more than this. And maybe you've never said any of it to anyone.

This is a private check-in. Nobody sees your answers but you. Ten questions, about three minutes, and there's no right result.
It won't tell you to stay or to go. Nothing here can make that decision, and it wouldn't be honest to pretend otherwise. What it can do is show you where you are right now – which, when the question has been going round for months, is often the piece that's missing.
You can stop at any point.
With love, Carolyn xx

Before we start – one question that isn't scored. Do you ever feel afraid for your safety, or your children's safety, with your partner – or afraid of what they might do if you left?

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