A. I generally remain grounded in my values, standards, and sense of direction.

B. I know who I am, but I sometimes adjust myself to gain approval, avoid conflict, or meet other people’s expectations.

C. I am currently questioning who I am, what I want, or the direction I should take.

QUESTION 1: IDENTITY
When circumstances, expectations, or relationships change, how connected do you remain
to who you are and what matters most to you?

I consider what is possible and then evaluate the opportunity realistically.

I feel excited initially, but doubt and overthinking often begin to take over.

I usually focus first on what could go wrong or why I may not be ready.

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I can usually pause, recognize what I am feeling, and respond intentionally.

I often understand my reaction after the situation has passed

I frequently react first and struggle to understand why the situation affected me so strongly.

Rarely—I usually recognize misalignment and make the necessary adjustment.

Occasionally—I recognize the cycle, but changing it consistently is difficult.

Frequently—I know the cycle is not working, but I continue returning to it.

My boundaries are generally clear, communicated, and supported by my actions.

I know what my boundaries should be, but I do not always maintain them.

I often ignore my needs or lower my standards to avoid disappointing or losing others.

I communicate honestly and respectfully, even when the conversation is difficult.

I sometimes hold back, overexplain, or soften what I truly need to say.

I tend to avoid the conversation, shut down, or react defensively.

I gather the available information, trust my judgment, and make a grounded decision.

I delay, seek repeated reassurance, or continue researching because I am afraid of choosing incorrectly.

I make a quick decision to escape the pressure and then question it afterward.

I prepare appropriately and move forward, even if everything is not perfect.