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What Did Carrying Turn You Into?

Growing up, people called you:

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Growing up, people called you:

A

Mature

B

Responsible

C

Strong

D

Helpful

Which sounds most like you?

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Which sounds most like you?

A

I’ll handle it.

B

It’s fine.

C

Don’t worry about me.

D

I got it.

What feels hardest?

*

What feels hardest?

A

Asking for help

B

Saying no

C

Slowing down

D

Letting people down

When something goes wrong, you usually:

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When something goes wrong, you usually:

A

Fix it

B

Carry it

C

Hide it

D

Push through it

What feels familiar?

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What feels familiar?

A

Being needed

B

Being depended on

C

Being overlooked

D

Being exhausted

When your phone rings, your first thought is:

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When your phone rings, your first thought is:

A

Who needs me?

B

What’s wrong?

C

What happened?

D

How can I help?

Growing up, when you were hurting:

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Growing up, when you were hurting:

A

I stayed quiet

B

I kept going

C

I helped someone else

D

I dealt with it alone

Which sentence hits hardest?

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Which sentence hits hardest?

A

If I don’t do it, nobody will.

B

I don’t have time to fall apart.

C

Everybody comes to me.

D

I’m tired.

What feels strange?

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What feels strange?

A

Resting

B

Receiving help

C

Doing nothing

D

Putting myself first

What do people expect from you?

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What do people expect from you?

A

Help

B

Strength

C

Stability

D

Everything

Which sounds familiar?

*

Which sounds familiar?

A

I carry a lot.

B

I worry about everyone.

C

I keep it together.

D

I never stop thinking.

When you’re overwhelmed:

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When you’re overwhelmed:

A

I work harder.

B

I stay quiet.

C

I disappear.

D

I keep moving.

What do people rarely see?

*

What do people rarely see?

A

My stress

B

My sadness

C

My exhaustion

D

My fear

Which thought have you had?

*

Which thought have you had?

A

I just need everyone okay.

B

I can’t let them down.

C

I’ll deal with it later.

D

Keep going.

What role did you play growing up?

*

What role did you play growing up?

A

Helper

B

Problem solver

C

Peacekeeper

D

Strong one

Which feels most true?

*

Which feels most true?

A

People need me.

B

People rely on me.

C

People trust me.

D

People don’t really know me.

What is hardest to admit?

*

What is hardest to admit?

A

I’m struggling.

B

I need help.

C

I’m overwhelmed.

D

I can’t do it all.

What follows you everywhere?

*

What follows you everywhere?

A

Responsibility

B

Worry

C

Pressure

D

Guilt

What are you most tired of?

*

What are you most tired of?

A

Carrying everything

B

Being strong

C

Holding it together

D

Pretending I’m okay

Which sentence feels like home?

*

Which sentence feels like home?

A

I’ll handle it.

B

Don’t worry about me.

C

I just want everyone okay.

D

I’m tired of carrying so much.