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The Clarity Check | Mind Over Man™

Which of these best describes your current season?

We've never clearly defined it, but we spend time together and act like we're in a relationship.

We've talked about it, but I'm still unsure whether we're on the same page.

We've both clearly communicated and agreed on the relationship we're building.

Have you and this man actually agreed on what your relationship is?

I'm pretty sure we wouldn't talk or see each other nearly as much.

He makes an effort sometimes, but I still feel responsible for keeping us connected.

We both consistently make an effort to communicate, spend time together, and maintain our connection.

If you stopped initiating conversations, making plans, or keeping things going, what would happen between you two?

He dismisses it, avoids the conversation, or makes promises without changing anything.

He listens and sometimes makes an effort, but the same issues keep coming back.

We can discuss difficult things respectfully, and I see meaningful effort to address concerns.

When you tell this man something is bothering you, what usually happens afterward?

I have an idea of what I want us to become, but I don't really know if he wants the same thing.

We've discussed a future, but I'm unsure whether we're taking steps toward it.

We understand each other's relationship goals, and our decisions reflect what we're building together.

When you think about where this relationship is going, what do you actually know?

I often keep things to myself because I'm afraid of his reaction or losing him.

I express myself sometimes, but I still struggle to communicate certain needs.

I can express my needs and boundaries without being punished, threatened, or disrespected for doing so.

How comfortable do you feel expressing your needs, boundaries, and expectations with this man?

I focus on how much I love him, our history, or the possibility that things will get better.

I recognize what's happening, but sometimes struggle to follow through on my boundaries.

I consider the issue, his accountability, and whether his behavior actually changes over time.

When this man disappoints you, how do you decide whether to give him another chance?

I'm holding on because I believe things will eventually become what I want.

Some things make me happy, but there are important needs that still aren't being met.

The relationship we're experiencing today generally aligns with what we both say we want.

Are you satisfied with the relationship you're experiencing today, or are you waiting for it to become something different?

I'd be unhappy, but I'd probably stay because I love him.

I'd have some serious concerns and would need to reconsider what I'm accepting.

I'd feel comfortable continuing because the relationship is generally healthy and meeting my important needs.

If nothing about this relationship changed over the next six months, how would you feel about continuing it?

Our chemistry is strong, and I love how he makes me feel.

I like him, but I'm still figuring out whether we're compatible.

I'm attracted to him, and what I'm learning about his values, intentions, and actions aligns with what I want.

You're attracted to him, but what's making you want to continue dating him?

Yes, but I'm hoping things will improve as we get closer.

Yes, and I'm still deciding whether it's something I can accept.

Not so far, or I've addressed my concerns and his actions have given me clarity.

Has this man shown you anything that doesn't align with what you're looking for?

We haven't discussed it, but I feel like we're heading in the same direction.

We haven't had that conversation yet, so I'm not assuming anything.

We've discussed our intentions, and I'm paying attention to whether his actions support his words.

Do you know what this man is looking for, or are you assuming you're on the same page?

I find myself overthinking or trying harder to get his attention.