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The Frame Test
When she takes 4+ hours to reply to your text, you usually:
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When she takes 4+ hours to reply to your text, you usually:
A
Open the chat several times to check if she's online
B
Try to be patient and not push — she must be busy
C
Sometimes I'm fine, sometimes I'm not — depends on the mood
D
Forget I sent it until she replies
She cancels plans last-minute. Your immediate response is:
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She cancels plans last-minute. Your immediate response is:
A
"When can we reschedule? Let me know what works."
B
"Totally understand — no rush!"
C
Mood drops, then I try to act like it's no big deal
D
"No problem. Hit me up when you're free." Then go do something else.
She mentions another guy in conversation — even casually. You:
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She mentions another guy in conversation — even casually. You:
A
Casually ask who he is, what they did, how often they hang out
B
Say "he sounds cool" but feel uncomfortable inside
C
Tighten — try to act unbothered while my mind races
D
Genuinely don't react. Continue the conversation as if she mentioned the weather.
How many evenings per week are non-negotiable for YOU? (gym, projects, friends)
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How many evenings per week are non-negotiable for YOU? (gym, projects, friends)
A
1 or fewer — I'd cancel most things if she wanted to see me
B
2 — I have some commitments but flex easily for her
C
3 — usually consistent, but it varies
D
4-5 — my life has its own structure. She fits into it.
When you want her to feel attracted to you, you tend to:
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When you want her to feel attracted to you, you tend to:
A
Send sweet texts, show up where she'll be, make sure she knows I'm thinking about her
B
Try to make her laugh, prove I'm fun and worth her time
C
Switch between hot and cold — keep her guessing
D
Just be myself. She either feels it or she doesn't.
Honest answer — when she pulls back emotionally, your first move is:
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Honest answer — when she pulls back emotionally, your first move is:
A
Send a "you okay?" or "did I do something?" message
B
Pull back equally hard, then doubt the move and reach out anyway
C
Notice it, give her space, continue building my life
D
Reach out to fix whatever I did wrong, even if I don't know what it was
After a great date with her, the next morning you:
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After a great date with her, the next morning you:
A
Send "I had a great time" — make sure she knows I'm interested
B
Cancel my morning plans in case she texts and wants to do something today
C
Wait until evening, then text "to play it cool"
D
Have my normal morning. Whether she texts or not is her move.
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