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Can you date without losing yourself?
Twenty-one questions. Three minutes. Answer honestly about where you are. You'll get seven scores back and an explanation of what they mean.
By Ellen Nguyen
I can name the pattern I'm repeating, even while I'm repeating it.
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A
Rarely
B
Sometimes
C
Often
I can be upset about something without first checking whether I'm overreacting.
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A
Rarely
B
Sometimes
C
Often
When something feels off, I act on it without needing someone else to confirm it first.
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A
Rarely
B
Sometimes
C
Often
When someone compliments me I can take it without correcting them or brushing it off.
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A
Rarely
B
Sometimes
C
Often
When something I'm working on isn't going well, I assume there's something I could do differently.
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A
Rarely
B
Sometimes
C
Often
I say what I need at the time, not three weeks later.
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A
Rarely
B
Sometimes
C
Often
I start things before I feel ready.
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A
Rarely
B
Sometimes
C
Often
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