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Soul Map Couples Questionnaire

This questionnaire helps us create your SoulMap, a relational map that reflects the recurring patterns you move through as a couple, especially when things feel difficult or disconnected.

SoulMap is designed for couples who are willing to engage with the process openly and thoughtfully.
Taking time to reflect individually is an essential part of the experience.

This is not therapy or diagnosis, it is a map.

A map does not tell you who is right or what to do. It helps you understand what is happening between you, so you can orient yourselves with more clarity and less blame.

Please set aside 25 to 40 minutes. Answer slowly, honestly, and in your own words. Long answers are welcome.


If a question does not fully fit, you can write “not sure” or “not applicable”.

Complete this questionnaire when you are calm, not in the middle of a conflict.

You can begin when you feel ready.