Form cover

Page 1 of 4

WHAT'S YOUR MONEY ATTACHMENT STYLE?

Discover the hidden pattern controlling what happens when money comes in, slows down, or disappears.

Question 1: You just had one of your best revenue months ever. What's happening inside your head?

*

A

I'm proud of what I created, and I'm already thinking about how to build on it.

B

This feels amazing, but part of me is wondering how long it's going to last.

C

I feel on top of the world! I start making big plans, spending more freely, and imagining what's next. But that excitement can fade just as quickly as it arrived.

D

I'm relieved, but I don't want to think too much about the money or what happens next.

Question 2: Your sales suddenly slow down. You're not in a financial emergency, but things are quieter than usual. What's your first instinct?

*

A

I pull back a little. I don't really want to look at what's happening.

B

I start checking my numbers, thinking about where the next sale is coming from, and feeling pressure to do something immediately.

C

I look at what's changed, assess my options, and decide whether anything actually needs my attention.

D

I question everything. One minute I'm determined to fix it, and the next I want to abandon my plan and start something completely different.

Question 3: You're feeling uncertain about money. How do you handle looking at your bank account?

*

A

I check it frequently, sometimes more than once a day, because I need to know where I stand.

B

I can look at the numbers without making them mean something about me.

C

I go back and forth between checking obsessively and avoiding it altogether.

D

I put it off. If I don't have to deal with the numbers right now, I'd rather not.

E

Question 4: $10,000 lands in your account. What's your most natural reaction?

*

A

I feel excited, maybe even euphoric. I start making plans immediately, but my excitement can turn into second-guessing just as quickly.

B

I appreciate it, consider my priorities, and decide what I want to do with it.

C

I feel immediate relief. Finally, I can stop worrying for a minute. But I know I'll start worrying again when it gets lower.

D

I feel uncomfortable making decisions about it. I'd rather put it somewhere and not think about it too much.

E

Question 5: There's a bigger move you want to make in your business or life, but it requires a meaningful financial investment. What happens?

*

A

I talk myself out of wanting it or convince myself I don't really need it.

B

I get excited and ready to commit, then suddenly second-guess everything or pull back when it becomes real.

C

I evaluate the opportunity, the risk, and my resources, then make a decision I can stand behind.

D

I worry about whether the investment will pay off and look for reassurance before deciding.

Question 6: You realize you need to bring in more money. What do you tend to do?

*

A

I assess what is needed and take practical action without turning it into a judgment about myself.

B

I become extremely resourceful when the pressure is intense, but sometimes I wait until things feel urgent before taking action.

C

I start doing more, reaching out more, working harder, and saying yes to opportunities I might normally decline.

D

I distract myself, delay uncomfortable conversations, or avoid the financial tasks I don't want to face.

Question 7: You need to put yourself out there, ask for the sale, or tell someone what your work costs. What's most familiar?

*

A

I can communicate my value and let the other person make their decision without taking it personally.

B

I may undercharge, avoid following up, or tell myself I don't really need that particular opportunity.

C

I overthink how they'll respond, adjust my approach, or worry about losing the opportunity.

D

I can show up with enormous confidence one day, then disappear, hesitate, or question myself the next.

Question 8: Imagine your income drops significantly next month. What's the most honest description of your response?

*

A

I may shut down, disconnect, or avoid thinking about it until I absolutely have to.

B

I feel fear, but I can separate what's happening financially from who I am and decide what to do next.

C

I feel myself spiraling into worry and immediately start trying to make something happen.

D

I may go into crisis mode, become intensely activated, solve the immediate problem, and then struggle to maintain that momentum.