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What's My
Friendship
Pattern?
Find Out Your Friendship Archetype
A scarily accurate 2-minute quiz that reveals what's really been happening in your friendships.
1. A friend texts you saying, "Can I call you? Something's happened." Your first thought is...
*
A
"Of course. Tell me everything."
B
"This feels bad... but I'll give her the benefit of the doubt"
C
"I hope she's okay. I'll rearrange my evening"
D
"How should I show up for her?"
E
"I'll make sure she's taken care of"
2. Someone really let's you down. You usually...
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A
Focus on helping them through whatever they're going through.
B
100% know it wasn't okay... then immediately find reasons why you're making too big a deal of it.
C
Tell yourself it's not worth making a fuss about.
D
Wonder if maybe you're the problem.
E
Keep showing up anyway.
3. You've just spent two hours listening to your friend unpack her situationship. At the end of the call, you're most likely to...
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A
Realize you know everything about her love life. And she knows nothing about yours.
B
Feel in your gut you need to say something… then spend the next two days talking yourself out of it.
C
Insist you're completely fine staying on the phone, even though you're exhausted.
D
Wonder if you’ve just shared too much about your own situation.
E
Offer to help her move house this weekend while you're at it.
4. A friend seems a little off with you, but she says "nothing's wrong". Your brain immediately goes...
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A
I hope she's okay
B
“something’s definitely wrong... but I’m probably reading too much into it."
C
"Let's not make this into a big thing."
D
"Should I send a follow-up text explaining what I meant?"
E
"How can I fix this asap?”
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