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FINDING YOUR NORTH STAR
What do you believe guides you?
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What matters most to you in the life you’re building?
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When do you feel most like yourself?
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What are you doing, and who are you with?
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What do your choices reveal?
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Think of a recent difficult decision. What did you choose, and what mattered most in that moment?
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What were you willing to sacrifice?
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What were you unwilling to sacrifice?
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Looking at where your time and energy go, what priorities show up?
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How much of that reflects choice, and how much reflects necessity?
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When have you said yes while wanting to say no?
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What influenced that answer?
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When have you made a difficult choice that you felt proud of afterward?
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What did you honor?
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What happens under pressure?
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When you feel uncertain, what do you try to secure first?
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What outcome feels hardest to risk and what would that outcome mean to you?
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When someone is disappointed in you, how does that affect your next move?
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What do you feel you have to do or be to deserve love, respect, or belonging?
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Which of your choices feel freely chosen, and which feel like something you
have
to do?
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How does this show up in relationships?
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What role do you tend to take in relationships?
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How do you feel about that role?
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How easy is it to express a need that might inconvenience someone?
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When your needs and someone else’s needs conflict, how do you decide what happens?
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What have you found yourself tolerating to maintain a relationship?
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What influenced you to stay?
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Which relationships allow you to be honest, have boundaries, and still feel connected?
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Is this direction serving you?
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What has this way of making decisions helped you gain or protect?
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What has it cost you?When does it serve you well, and when does it get in your way?
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How does it affect the people close to you?
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Can you adapt when circumstances change, or does choosing differently feel unacceptable?
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Think of a time you acted differently. What made that possible?
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What do you want to guide you now?
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Which values feel genuinely yours, and which feel like expectations you’ve inherited?
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What do you want to stand for even when it’s uncomfortable?
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What would honoring that value look like while respecting both yourself and other people?
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What discomfort might you be willing to experience to live more consistently with that value?
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What is one small choice you could make this week that would reflect your chosen direction?
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SUBMIT