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The Bold Life Audit

Welcome to the Bold Life Audit where you'll uncover the invisible patterns shaping how you work, relate, achieve—and make choices for yourself.
How to take the assessment

For each statement, choose the answer that best reflects how true this feels for you right now, rather than how you think you should respond.

Rating Scale
1 — Not true at all
2 — Rarely true
3 — Sometimes true
4 — Often true
5 — Very true

I sometimes hold back ideas, talents, or ambitions because standing out feels uncomfortable or risky.

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When someone needs something from me, I feel responsible for helping even when I don’t really have the capacity.

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I compare where I am in life to where I think I should be by now.

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One mistake can overshadow everything I did well.

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When someone seems upset or disappointed with me, I feel an immediate urge to make things okay.

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I’ve built or achieved things I expected to make me happy, but they don’t feel as fulfilling as I thought they would.

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Asking other people to help me feels harder than simply handling things myself.

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I downplay my accomplishments when talking about them with other people.

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Resting when there’s still something I could be accomplishing makes me uncomfortable.

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I have a harder time answering “What do I want?” than I think I should.

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I apologize even when I haven’t actually done anything wrong.

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I delay starting or finishing things when I’m unsure whether I can do them well enough.

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Being the person everyone can depend on has become an important part of how I see myself.

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I change how I express my opinions depending on who I’m talking to.

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Accomplishments feel more meaningful when other people notice or recognize them.

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I replay decisions afterward looking for what I could have done differently, even when things turned out fine.

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I sometimes wonder, “Is this really the life I want, or simply the life I’ve gotten good at living?”

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Advocating for someone else’s talent or accomplishments feels much easier than advocating for my own.

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I continue carrying responsibilities I no longer want because I worry about what would happen if I stopped.

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When conflict arises, my first instinct is to reduce the tension rather than say what I really think.

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When I accomplish something significant, I quickly move on to what’s next instead of letting myself enjoy it.

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I hold myself to standards I wouldn’t expect from someone else.

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I feel pulled toward something different, even though I can’t fully name what that something is yet.

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Being publicly recognized for something I’ve done makes me noticeably uncomfortable.

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I take responsibility for things simply because I know I can handle them.

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Before sharing something someone may not want to hear, I spend a lot of time anticipating how they’ll react.

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How productive I’ve been affects how good I feel about myself.

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Small mistakes can feel disproportionately upsetting because I worry about what they say about me.

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Parts of my life still reflect what an earlier version of me wanted more than what I want now.

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When someone praises something I’ve created or accomplished, I instinctively redirect or minimize the credit.

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It is difficult for me to prioritize my own needs when someone else needs something from me.

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I’ve agreed outwardly with a decision I privately disagreed with because speaking up felt uncomfortable.

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Falling short of a goal can make me feel like I failed, rather than simply that the outcome wasn’t what I wanted.

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I spend far more time than necessary checking, revising, or preparing things before I consider them finished.

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I can often identify what other people need or want more easily than I can identify what I need or want.

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I’ve avoided opportunities that would put me in the spotlight even when I knew I was qualified.

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Where would you most like something to change right now?

Which best describes where you are right now?

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If one thing could feel different six months from now, what would you want it to be?

What’s getting in the way?

What is your First and Last Name?

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