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You want love that feels easy. So why does it keep feeling like work?

This isn't a compatibility quiz. It's a short look underneath the way you love, at the beliefs that quietly decide who gets close and what it costs you.

Twelve sentences in three short parts, about three minutes. Answer with your gut, not your head: the first answer is usually the honest one.

Part 1 of 3 · Letting love in

When someone gets really close, part of me starts looking for the exit.

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A

Never

B

Rarely

C

Sometimes

D

Often

E

That's so me

I know what my partner needs before I know what I need.

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A

Never

B

Rarely

C

Sometimes

D

Often

E

That's so me

Sometimes I feel I'm "too much" for someone to really love.

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A

Never

B

Rarely

C

Sometimes

D

Often

E

That's so me

I always seem to fall for the same type, and it never ends well.

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A

Never

B

Rarely

C

Sometimes

D

Often

E

That's so me