Conscious Curated Events

Self Direction (Independence, freedom, thinking for yourself, making your own choices)

Stimulation (Adventure, excitement, new experiences, keeping life interesting)

Achievement (Success, ambition, reaching goals, personal growth)

Hedonism (Enjoyment, pleasure, fun, physical connection)

Power (Status, influence, leadership, being respected or in control)

Security (Stability, safety, trust, long-term consistency)

Conformity (Respecting rules, responsibility, being reliable and considerate)

Tradition (Family values, cultural or spiritual beliefs, honoring traditions)

Benevolence (Kindness, loyalty, caring for close relationships)

Universalism (Empathy, open-mindedness, caring about people and the world as a whole)

Sexual - Turned on by sex, touch, visual attraction, very physical

Sensual - Driven by the environment and senses

Energetic - Turned on by anticipation and subtlety

Kinky - Turned on by taboo, power play or psychological play

Shapeshifter - Enjoys all styles, adaptable

Acts of Service - Doing helpful things that make your partner's life easier

Receiving Gifts - Thoughtful gifts that show care and intention

Quality Time - Undivided attention, presence annd meaningful time together

Physical Touch - Affection through touch; hugging, kissing, physical closeness

Words of Affirmation - Verbal appreciation, compliments and encouragement

Secure - Comfortable with closeness and independence, communicates needs openly

Anxious - Seeks reassurance and closeness, may fear abandonment or inconsistency

Avoidant - Values independence, may pull away from emotional closeness

Fearful-Avoidant (Disorganized) - Desires connection but also fears it, can feel conflicted or inconsistent

1 - The Reformer: Disciplined, strives to do whats right

2 - The Helper: Caring, giving, wants to be needed and appreciated

3 - The Achiever: Driven, success-oriented, focused on image and goals

4 - The Individualist: Emotional, expressive, seeks identity and depth

5 - The Investigator: Analytical, private, values knowledge and independence

6 - The Loyalist: Loyal, security-oriented, seeks safety and certainty

7 - The Enthusiast: Fun, spontaneous, seeks new experiences and avoids pain

8 - The Challenger: Assertive, strong, wants control and independence

9 - The Peacemaker: Easygoing, conflict-avoidant, seeks harmony