Let's See If We're a Fit

Why Do This: This application helps us both figure out if we're a fit before we invest time in a conversation. Be honest. There are no right answers — just your answers.

Time Required: About 10 minutes

Where are you based?

What's the gap between where you are and where you want to be?

How long have you been stuck here?

A few months

Longer than I'd like to admit

What have you already tried to shift this?

When we're stuck, we all have default moves—patterns we fall into without thinking. These questions help surface yours.

When something important isn't moving forward, my first instinct is usually to...

Work harder or longer—push through the resistance

Research more—find the right framework, course, or strategy

Look inward—figure out what's wrong with me and fix it

Get input—check with others before committing to a direction

Help someone else—their needs feel more urgent than mine

When I actually make progress, what usually stops the momentum is...

Exhaustion—I burned too hot and crashed

Second-guessing—maybe there's a better approach

Feeling not ready—I need to work on myself more first

Waiting—for feedback, approval, or the "right moment"

Getting pulled away—someone needed me

If I'm honest, the pattern I fall into most often is...

The Hustle Trap — I try to outwork the stuckness

The Strategy Trap — I try to outthink the stuckness

The Self-Fix Trap — I try to out-heal the stuckness

The Permission Trap — I wait until I feel certain or approved

The Service Trap — I stay busy with others to avoid my own stuckness

What do you think is actually underneath this pattern?

This work generates heat. It requires a stable foundation to hold it. These questions help me understand where you're starting from — not to judge, but to make sure this is the right container for you right now.

When conflict or tension shows up in your life, how do you typically handle it?

I can stay present and work through it, even when it's uncomfortable

I manage, but it takes a lot out of me

I tend to avoid it, shut down, or get overwhelmed

Conflict usually destabilizes me for a while

How would you describe your closest relationships right now?

Stable and supportive, even if imperfect

Mostly good, with one relationship that's challenging

Rocky — there's ongoing tension or uncertainty

Chaotic or draining — I'm often managing other people's crises

How much is on your plate right now outside of this work?

Life is full but manageable — I have capacity for this

One area of life is demanding a lot of my energy right now

Multiple areas feel heavy — work, health, relationships, finances

I'm in active crisis — things are falling apart

Do you have people in your life you can lean on when things get hard?

Yes — I have solid support around me

A few people, but I tend not to lean on them

Not really — I usually handle things alone

No — I feel pretty isolated

Are you currently working with a therapist, coach, or other support?

Yes, actively

Yes, but wrapping up

No, but I have in the past

What makes now the right time for this work?

What's most likely to get in the way of you fully showing up for this work?

I understand the investment is $1,500/month for a minimum of 6 months. I'm ready to commit at this level if we're a fit.

Yes

Let's See If We're a Fit

The Basics

Name

Email

What do you do?

Where are you based?

The Gap