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The Hotwife Fantasy Survey

The Hotwife Fantasy Survey is part of The Real Hotwife Survey Project: the first independent, lived-experience dataset on this lifestyle. Completely anonymous. No email, no name, no judgment, about 4 minutes. Results publish free for the whole community, creators included. Started by one real couple who carried the fantasy for 22 years before living it (HappyHotwife.com).
The honest sort

First: have you and a partner actually lived real Hotwife experiences?

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Already living it for real? You belong in the couples survey, where your answers carry the most weight: HappyHotwife.com/survey/. This one is for the dreamers.
Who you are

You are:

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Your age range

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Relationship status

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In the fantasy, you are:

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The fantasy itself

How long has this fantasy been with you?

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Where did it start?

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Which flavor is hottest?

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The hottest part is: (select all that apply)

Is BBC part of the fantasy?

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D

In the fantasy, the other man’s size is:

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If you are a man: your honest size (self-reported, anonymous)

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Does your OWN size play a part in the fantasy?

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Does the fantasy include any male-to-male element?

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Is chastity (a cage, a keyholder) part of the fantasy?

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Does the fantasy include sharing photos of her online (faceless or otherwise)?

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How often does the fantasy show up?

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Fantasy vs reality

Do you want it to become real?

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If you keep it fantasy-only on purpose, why?

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Have you told your partner?

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If you have not tried it, the #1 barrier is:

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What do you honestly believe the reality is like for couples who live it?

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What you watch, read, and follow

Your fantasy fuel is mostly: (select all that apply)

When you seek out content in this niche, what pulls you hardest? (The line between porn and real is blurry on purpose here. This is about what you are hunting for.)

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Do you follow specific creators or couples in this niche?

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What makes a lifestyle creator worth following? (select all that apply)

Have you paid for content in this niche (OnlyFans, Fansly, books, audio)?

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D

What would you actually pay for? (select all that apply)

The door

Would hearing the honest version (the hard parts included) make you MORE or LESS into the fantasy?

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D

If a real wife 27 years married answered your questions honestly, what would you ask first?

Describe the single hottest scene in your fantasy.

Anything you wish existed in this space that does not?

Thank you. Results publish free at HappyHotwife.com/survey/. If the honest version sounds like your kind of heat, the real story is Becoming Happy Hotwife, free on Kindle Unlimited. And if you are living it already, take the couples survey too.