Where Am I on My Fatherhood Journey?

A Self-Assessment for New and Expectant Dads

Absolutely! Below is the **full content for your Tally quiz**, based on the *6 Stages of a Fully Actualised and Integrated Dad Self-Assessment*. You can **copy and paste this directly into [Tally.so](https://tally.so)** and use its built-in logic to score, redirect, and email results. --- ## 🎯 Quiz Title: **“Where Am I on My Fatherhood Journey?”** *A Self-Assessment for New and Expectant Dads (RAD Fams)* --- ## ✅ Page 1: Welcome > **Title:** Welcome, Dad > **Description:** > Fatherhood isn’t a destination—it’s a journey. This quick self-assessment will help you reflect on your growth, explore where you're at emotionally, and connect you to the support and tools that match your stage. > Click “Start” when you’re ready. **→ Add Start Button** --- ## ✅ Page 2: Anticipation (Pre-birth) > **Title:** Stage 1 – Anticipation > *Rate each statement from 1 (Strongly Disagree) to 5 (Strongly Agree).* **Question Type:** *Number Scale (1–5)* (Enable scoring on each question) 1. I’ve reflected on how I want to show up as a dad. 2. I feel mentally and emotionally ready to become a father. 3. I’ve talked with someone about my fears, hopes, and expectations. 4. I’ve made intentional choices to prepare for the transition. 5. I feel connected to the idea of becoming a dad, even before birth. **→ Add a hidden calculation block:** `AnticipationScore = Q1 + Q2 + Q3 + Q4 + Q5` --- ## ✅ Page 3: Encounter (Birth to 6 Weeks) > **Title:** Stage 2 – Encounter > *Choose the answer that best reflects your experience.* **Question Type:** *Multiple Choice with scoring* (Assign scores: 1 = Freeze/Disengaged, 3 = Mixed, 5 = Present/Regulated) 1. How do you respond when your baby cries? * I freeze or shut down (1) * I try different things, but feel unsure (3) * I stay calm and co-regulate (5) 2. During feeding, crying, or cuddling… * I feel detached or awkward (1) * I’m there, but distracted (3) * I’m fully present and attuned (5) 3. I regularly connect with my baby through voice, eye contact, and touch. * Rarely (1) * Sometimes (3) * Often (5) **→ Add a hidden calculation block:** `EncounterScore = Q6 + Q7 + Q8` --- ## ✅ Page 4: Emergence (6 Weeks to 6 Months) > **Title:** Stage 3 – Emergence > *Reflect on your identity shift. Choose or rate as needed.* **Mixed question types:** 4. I feel like a “real dad” when I \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_. → *Short Answer* 5. I’m experimenting with different ways of being a father. * No (1) * Unsure (3) * Yes (5) 6. I compare myself to other dads. * Often (1) * Sometimes (3) * Rarely (5) 7. I’m noticing a shift in how others see me—and how I see myself. → *Scale (1–5)* **→ Add a hidden calculation block:** `EmergenceScore = Q10 + Q11 + Q12` --- ## ✅ Page 5: Engagement & Integration > **Title:** Stages 4–5 Check-In > *Reflect on your deeper parenting experience.* **Number Scales (1–5):** 1. I feel like a confident emotional guide for my child. 2. I initiate playful learning and connection. 3. I see fatherhood as core to who I am—not just something I do. 4. My parenting reflects the kind of man I want to be. 5. I feel emotionally anchored in my father identity. **→ Add hidden calculation block:** `IntegrationScore = Q13 + Q14 + Q15 + Q16 + Q17` --- ## ✅ Page 6: Final Score & Logic > **Title:** Results – Where Are You in Your Journey? **Add one last calculation block:** `totalScore = AnticipationScore + EncounterScore + EmergenceScore + IntegrationScore` ### Conditional Redirect or Logic Display: Use conditional logic to show a tailored message or redirect based on total score range: | Score Range | Stage | Message | | ----------- | ---------------------------- | --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | | 0–20 | Early Anticipation/Encounter | “You're still settling in. That’s okay. You’re not behind—you're building your foundation. Start by anchoring presence and emotional availability.” | | 21–35 | Emerging | “You're moving into a strong Emergence phase—ready to explore identity and playful leadership. Lean into co-regulation and self-trust.” | | 36–50+ | Integrated | “You’ve likely crossed into identity integration. Now’s the time to mentor, lead, and model. Your growth fuels your family.” | 👉 You can use **redirects to custom Squarespace result pages** for each stage, or display these results directly in Tally’s confirmation message. --- ## ✅ Final Page: Email Follow-Up (Optional) > **Title:** Want Support That Matches Your Stage? **Add Email Field:** “Drop your email and we’ll send you resources tailored to your current stage of fatherhood.” Enable: * Auto-response email * Zapier/Make integration to deliver PDFs, links, or follow-up invitations to RAD Fams --- ## ✅ Final Tips * Use **Tally’s Hidden Fields** if you want to prefill name/email from a Squarespace page * Enable **“Redirect on Submit”** to take users to RAD Dads or RAD Fams resources * Add branding, logos, and progress bars to match your site --- Would you like: * Me to **build this quiz in Tally** and send you the link? * Custom **results pages designed in Squarespace or Canva**? * A PDF version of each stage result to attach to email flows? Let me know and I can take the next step with you.