Discover Your Hidden Relationship Story

This 5-minute assessment will reveal which unconscious role you play in relationships and why you keep experiencing the same patterns. Answer honestly for the most accurate insights.

Questions

1) When conflict arises in your relationships, what's your first instinct?

A

Take responsibility and try to fix the situation, even if it wasn't your fault

B

Withdraw and wait for the other person to reach out first

C

Get frustrated that you're not being heard or understood

D

Analyze what the other person did wrong and why they're being unreasonable

2) In your relationships, you typically feel like you're:

A

Giving more emotional energy than you receive back

B

Being kept at arm's length when you want to get closer

C

Fighting for attention or priority in the other person's life

D

The only one who really understands what's happening

3) What pattern shows up across multiple relationships?

A

You end up being the "therapist" or emotional support person

B

You feel like an outsider looking in, even with close people

C

You find yourself competing with others (friends, exes, work) for your partner's focus

D

You're constantly trying to wake people up to problems they're ignoring

4) When relationships disappoint you, the story you tell yourself is:

A

"I care too much and they don't appreciate what I do for them"

B

"They say they want closeness but always keep me at a distance"

C

"I'm never their real priority - there's always something else more important"

D

"They just don't understand what's really going on here"

5) Your biggest relationship fear is:

A

Being seen as selfish or needy if you ask for what you want

B

Being rejected or abandoned if you show your real self

C

Being replaced or forgotten when something better comes along

D

Being stuck with someone who never grows or changes